A phenomenon common to all human beings, people say “The grass is greener elsewhere” or “Life is better elsewhere”. In the Latvian version, “Only this can happen in Latvia”, “Only this can be done by a Latvian” or other phrases of essentially narrow-minded views. Even the word “narrow-minded” may sound like an insult to some, but it is more about ignorance, the inability or unwillingness to think more broadly. A phenomenon that seems to affect people in all walks of life. Whether it is dissatisfaction with one’s country, one’s city or even one’s immediate surroundings, it is a longing for something different, something better.
We tend to idealize what is unfamiliar, ignoring the challenges and complexities that exist elsewhere. We look at other places through rose-tinted glasses, romanticizing the example we have chosen and believing that that is where true happiness lies. Our habituation to our daily routines and patterns of behavior makes us long for the change that might exist elsewhere, but not here. The call for new experiences and different cultures only reinforces the vitality of this phenomenon.
When we compare our own country or culture with others, we often make selective comparisons. We focus on the positive aspects of foreign countries, while minimizing the potentially negative aspects that people encounter in other countries. Social media, travel descriptions and media portrayals of different cultures further push us to use this phenomenon as a form of comparison.
Nostalgia is another point where this phenomenon blossoms and flourishes. As time passes, we tend to remember the positive events of the past and easily “forget” the struggles and difficulties.
While it is natural to dream and seek new experiences, it is equally important to be aware of the value and uniqueness of our surroundings. A sense of gratitude for what we have and an active exploration of the opportunities available can help us find fulfillment and satisfaction in the present moment.
A phenomenon that reveals our innate desire for exploration, change and new experiences. It is important to find a balance and appreciate the beauty and possibilities that exist in our own lives. By being aware of the present moment, we can find contentment and fulfillment without constantly striving for the unattainable perfection we imagine elsewhere.
Remember that the grass may seem greener elsewhere, but there is greater satisfaction in a patch of grass that we nurture and can safely call our own.
